Senior Sessions from a different perspective

As parents, we have so many plans we are making; so many ideas and schedules are constantly running through our minds with so many expectations we build for ourselves and our children.

Documenting and preparing for your children's last year of high school is such a milestone that you want all the things to go well for the best experiences and memories. That infamous senior portrait session is no different.

But there are many seniors out there that don't gush and dream away at the thought of getting in front of the camera. They may feel obligated or even forced into doing something that is totally uncomfortable for them. And some downright refuse. 

And that's okay. 

As a parent and photographer, it's my job to understand that seniors come from all walks of life and experiences. The way they learn, the way they interact with others, and the way they view the world can be so vast and ever-changing. And as a parent, this can be very challenging, especially when it comes to our ideal expectations of senior portraits that we've probably already envisioned. 

I'd like to offer possibly a different perspective on these sessions. One that asks us as parents to slow down, take a few breaths and sit down with our young adult...

Have I allowed my senior to feel like they are in control of what their session can look like? Have I asked them to share their thoughts and ideas? Am I allowing them the freedom to express who they are? Is this session for me or them? Have I considered that any exceptionalities my child has can lead to just as amazing and unique of a session as they are? 

Our children are all individually unique and special. Their senior session should be also. So take some time to communicate with them. Show them that they are being seen and heard. And watch how you help create the best experience together.